My Secret

“What’s your secret?” “How do you make it work?” “You guys are always happy” These are just a few of the questions I always get asked about my relationship. Since the age of 16, we’ve had 8 strong years together. 8 years. It’s crazy when I think about it. When listening to the Real Talk’s…

It’s Not You

Hello all, so I'm back with a topic for that I was hesitant to write about but writing about my experiences and feelings is a part of healing for me and also one of the foundations of my 'Thoughts of Chi' brand. Long story short, I'm currently healing from a sudden break up that's taken…

Terms and Conditions Apply

First of all, can we all agree it is NOT and will never be by force to be in a relationship? Even if you’re 30+ and your parents are screaming "when will you marry?" It will still never be by force. Especially if you have to lower your standards? If you have to settle? It…

You never know what you have until it’s gone

Dunno about you, but it takes a significant experience or change for me to really understand things in life. Not all but some. I recently started reading The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey. He put forward his analysis of 'paradigms' and their shifts. Without giving too much of a summary, paradigms…